## A Parent's Handbook: Keeping Kids Happy on Long Flights
Traveling with kids? It's a mix of fun and, let's be real, tough moments. Seeing new places creates memories that last, but getting there – like on those super long flights – can try anyone's patience, kids and parents included.
Being stuck in a small area for hours, waiting to arrive, and dealing with messed-up sleep schedules can make even the best kids act up. But don't worry! With some smart planning and a few tricks up your sleeve, you can make your flight way better for everyone.
This is your guide to keeping kids busy and happy on those long trips, loaded with tips that work, fun things to do, and advice from people who know.
1. Plan Ahead: The Key to Stress-Free Flying
Taking kids on trips can be a lot easier if you plan things out ahead of time. A good plan can stop kids from getting bored or having outbursts while you're traveling. Begin by thinking about how old your child is, what they enjoy doing, and how much energy they usually have.
a. Picking the Best Seats
If you can, try to get seats that give your family enough room and make things easier for you.
Seats next to the aisle let kids get up and move around without bothering other people.
Seats by the window let kids look outside, which can keep them interested and entertained.
Seats close to the restrooms can be really helpful, especially if you have little ones.
b. When You Travel Is Important
Try to book flights that work with your child's normal sleep times. Flights at night often let kids sleep for most of the trip, so you don't have to worry as much about keeping them entertained.
c. Know Your Airline
Lots of airlines have things like movies, food for kids, and even activity packs to keep kids busy on the plane. Look into what your airline offers before you go, so you can bring your own activities to add to what they have. That way, you're not counting on the airline for everything. Doing a little homework here can pay off big.
2. Pack an Entertainment Kit
For parents flying with kids, a good entertainment kit is super important. It can really help make the flight easier.
a. Tablets and Electronics
Tablets are great for keeping kids busy, but don't let them use them too much. Before you leave, put some stuff on the tablet like:
* Movies and TV shows that are good for their age
* Learning apps and games
* Audiobooks or podcasts made for children
Also, bring headphones that are made for kids. That way, they can hear everything well, and other people on the plane won't be bothered by the noise.
b. Books and Coloring Stuff
Books and coloring supplies are a simple way to go. Get some:
* Picture books, comic books, or easy-to-read books for younger kids
* Coloring books and crayons so children can have fun being creative without creating too much of a mess.
c. Games That Are Easy to Take with You
Consider packing some travel entertainment like:
* Card games like Uno
* Magnetic travel games
* Small puzzles or sticker books
d. Snacks
Have different snacks ready. Pack both healthy options and some treats. Snacks are good for when children are hungry, and they also help keep them busy on the flight. Try not to give kids too many sugary snacks. These can make them hyperactive.
3. Interactive and Engaging Activities
Keeping kids happy on long trips can be a tricky thing. A mix of fun stuff can really save the day and keep them entertained. Switching between different things to do is a great way to avoid those boredom meltdowns. Here are some ideas:
**a. Stories and Audio Books**
Stories are awesome for firing up a kid’s imagination and making time fly. Try these:
* **Read aloud**. Pick a favorite book and read it out loud. Let them pick the voices and get into character.
* **Make up stories**. Get creative together. Start a story and have your child add characters and plot twists. It can get really funny.
* **Audiobooks**. These are awesome for longer attention spans. They’re easier on you and they can also be calming if there's a bit of turbulence.
**b. Sneaky Learning**
Long trips can be a cool way to sneak in some learning, just make it fun:
* **Geography games**. Look at maps of where you’re headed. Ask them to find different places. Get a kid's map so they can color it.
* **Say it in a different language**. Teach them a few easy words in the language of your destination. They’ll be showing off in no time.
* **Math games**. Get them counting airplane seats. Figure out how long before you land, how fast the plane is going, or how many more miles till you get there.
**c. Easy Crafts**
Little craft projects can keep kids busy for ages:
* **Sticker collage**. Bring a travel notebook and a bunch of stickers. Let them create a sticker masterpiece.
* **Origami**. Folding paper into cool shapes is surprisingly fun. There are tons of easy tutorials online; download them before your trip.
* **Pipe cleaner creations**. Pipe cleaners are bendy and fun. Kids can make animals, people, or whatever they dream up.
*Important Tip*: Don’t bring messy stuff like glue or paint. Stickers, crayons, and coloring books are way safer for small spaces. Also, bring extra wipes!
**d. Apps and Games**
There are some good apps that mix learning with play so kids don't get too zoned out:
* **Puzzle apps**. Stuff like jigsaw puzzles is great for concentration.
* **Interactive story apps**. These let kids make choices that change the story.
* **Memory games**. Simple memory and concentration games are another good option for passing the time.
4. Movement and Physical Activity
For both adults and kids, being stuck sitting for hours can be a real drag. When you can, try to work in some movement.
a. Walk Around
If it's allowed, walk a little bit. Getting up and down the plane aisle is an easy way for kids to get rid of some energy and feel less cooped up.
b. Simple Stretches
Show your kids some easy stretches they can do while sitting:
Make circles with their arms.
Tap their feet and stretch their legs out.
Roll their shoulders forward and back.
c. Games To Play In Their Seats
When moving around isn't an option, try games that you can play while sitting:
Play I Spy looking at things outside the window or around the plane.
Try clapping games or other things to do with your hands.
Play guessing games. Pick animals, and have others ask questions.
5. Comfort and Sleep
Let's face it, getting enough rest on a long flight is super important, especially when you've got kids in tow. Jet lag can be a real pain for them, so anything we can do to help them sleep on the plane is a win.
**a. Pillows and Blankets**
Think about bringing along some small, snuggly pillows and soft blankets. These can really make your children feel safe and comfortable in a strange environment. A familiar pillow or blanket from home can work wonders. It gives them something familiar to snuggle up with, making it easier to relax.
**b. Sleep Helpers**
* **Eye Masks:** If you have older kids, eye masks could be a good idea. Those cabin lights can be annoying, and an eye mask can block them out, signaling to their brains that it's time to sleep.
* **Familiar Comforts:** For the younger crew, don't forget their favorite stuffed animal or that beloved blanket. Having a piece of home with them can make a big difference in helping them drift off to dreamland.
* **Naptime Strategy:** Try to get your kids to nap during the flight times that line up with their regular sleep schedule at home. This can help their bodies adjust to the new time zone and reduce jet lag later. Even if they don't fall completely asleep, resting quietly can help.
**c. Keep the Noise Down**
Airplanes can be noisy places, so think about packing earplugs or noise-canceling headphones. These can block out a lot of the background noise from the cabin, making it much easier for your children to fall asleep and stay asleep. Some kids might resist wearing them at first, so let them try them out at home before the trip to get used to the feeling.
6. Social Interaction
In-flight socializing can really help kids burn off energy and satisfy their curiosity. Here's how to encourage positive interactions:
A. Travel Buddies:
If your kid is flying with siblings or friends, get them involved in activities they can do together. Simple board games are great for passing the time. Another idea is to have them take turns telling stories. They can build off of each other's ideas. If you're okay with it, sharing a tablet to watch movies or play games together can also work. The key is to promote teamwork. This will keep them busy and reduce boredom.
B. Making Friends with Passengers:
A little bit of friendly interaction with other passengers can also be a good thing, as long as it's done the right way. Teach your kids how to greet people politely. They could share a small, quiet game with the person next to them or tell each other brief stories. Just remember to always supervise these interactions. You want to make sure everyone feels comfortable and that your child is being respectful of others' personal space.
7. Plan for Delays and Unexpected Situations
Traveling with kids can be tricky. Sometimes, flights don't go as smoothly as we hope. You might face delays, bumpy rides, or even have to switch seats. It's always good to be prepared for anything! Here are some simple tips that might come in handy during air travel, so you and your little ones can have a better flight:
**a. Pack Surprise Activities**
Kids get bored easily, especially on long flights. One good idea is to bring a few small toys, games, or activity books that you keep hidden away. When boredom strikes, pull one out as a surprise! It will keep them busy and happy for a while. The element of surprise keeps them engaged longer. Consider things like small puzzles, travel-sized board games, or a new coloring book with crayons. These don't take up much space and can be a lifesaver.
**b. Stash Away Emergency Snacks**
Hunger can turn a happy child into a cranky one fast. Always have some favorite snacks or treats tucked away in your bag. If your child starts getting irritable or says they're hungry and the meal service is still a ways off, these snacks can save the day. Think of things that are easy to eat and not too messy, such as granola bars, crackers, or fruit snacks. Remember to avoid anything that might cause a sugar rush followed by a crash.
**c. Teach Calming Tricks**
Sometimes, kids get anxious or upset during flights. Teaching them some simple calming techniques can really help. Here are a couple of easy things you can try:
* **Deep Breathing:** Teach them to take slow, deep breaths. You can make it fun by pretending to smell a flower and then blow out a candle.
* **Imagination Games:** Get them to close their eyes and imagine they're already at your destination. Have them describe what they see, hear, and smell. For example, if you are going to the beach, have them imagine the sand, the waves, and feel the sun against their skin.
* **Quiet Activities:** Coloring books or sticker books can be great for keeping kids calm and quiet. They can focus on the activity and forget about any anxiety they might be feeling. These are especially useful during takeoff and landing.
8. Engage Senses and Curiosity
Long plane trips might seem boring, but they can actually be a great chance to learn new things and keep your senses active. Here are a couple of ways to do this:
A. Looking Out the Window
Suggest that kids spend some time watching what's happening outside. You could talk about:
* **Clouds and Weather Patterns:** What kinds of clouds do you see? Is it sunny, rainy, or snowy below? How does the weather change as you fly? Explain how different cloud formations can tell about upcoming weather changes. Discuss the impact of altitude on temperature and weather conditions.
* **Planes Taking Off and Landing:** Watch other planes at the airport. How do they take off and land? What are all those ground vehicles doing? Talk about the different types of aircraft they might see, from small jets to big cargo planes. Discuss the roles of air traffic control and ground crew in ensuring safe takeoffs and landings.
* **Cities, Rivers, and Landscapes from Above:** See how cities and towns look from up high. Can you spot any major rivers, mountains, or other things? How does the landscape change as you travel? Explore the geological features that define the terrain, such as mountain ranges, river valleys, and coastal formations. Think about the human impact on the land, noticing how farms, cities, and roads have shaped the landscape. Discuss the geographical factors influencing settlement patterns and economic activities in different regions.
B. Paying Attention on the Plane
Make the trip a learning experience by:
* **Talking About Plane Safety and How Planes Work:** Read the safety information card together. Explain why it's important to listen to the crew. Talk about how planes fly – wings, engines, and all that. Explain how the wing shape helps the plane lift off the ground. Talk about how the pilots use the controls to steer the plane. Talk about the safety features on a plane, like oxygen masks and life vests.
* **Watching People and Cultures:** Look at all the different people on the plane. Where do you think they are from? What might their lives be like? Think about the clothes they wear and the languages they speak. Discuss the importance of respecting diversity, tolerance, and understanding each other's backgrounds and customs.
* **Counting Languages:** Try to count how many different languages you hear being spoken around you. This can show how many different people are traveling on the same plane. What does it mean to speak those different languages, you may ask. This can raise children's interest in learning foreign languages. Talk about how language helps us to learn about other people's culture.
9. Use Technology Wisely
Finding the right balance with screen time is key—it can be a real help, but we don't want screens to be the only thing our kids do for fun.Mixing it up with both digital and non-digital activities keeps their minds sharp and their imaginations active.
a. Load Up on Entertainment Ahead of Time:
Before you get on the plane, make sure to download some movies, TV shows, and games. That way, you're not stuck relying on the airplane's Wi-Fi, which can sometimes be spotty or not work at all.
b. Take Breaks from Screens:
Get your kids to switch between using screens and doing something physical or creative. Here's an idea:
Let them play games on a tablet for about 45 minutes, and then have them spend 15 minutes coloring or drawing.
They could also listen to an audiobook while they draw or work on a craft project.
10. Encourage Independence
For parents flying with older kids, here's how to keep them happy and make the trip easier for everyone:
**Give them some say in their fun.** Instead of you planning every single minute, let your kids decide what they want to do on the plane. Before you go, chat about the different options – reading, watching movies, playing games – and let them make a rough plan for the flight. This gives them a sense of control and keeps them from getting bored as quickly.
**Let them pack their own goody bag.** Get a small backpack or bag just for your child, and let them fill it with things to keep them busy. Think books, small toys, coloring books, and, of course, snacks. Having their favorite things within reach will keep them from constantly asking you for things and help them feel more independent. Just double-check to make sure everything is flight-friendly.
**Get them to record their trip.** Encourage your kids to keep a travel journal or sketchbook. They can write about what they see, draw pictures of the places you visit, or even just jot down funny things that happen along the way. It's a great way for them to be creative, remember their experiences, and keep busy during downtime on the plane. You might be surprised at how much they enjoy it, and it'll be a cool keepsake for them later on.
11. Expert Tips from Experienced Travelers
Experienced parents and travel pros suggest the following tips for smooth travels with kids:
Double Up on Essentials: Pack a spare of your child's cherished toy or blanket. Losing a beloved item can trigger a meltdown far from home. Having a backup can save the day.
Stay Hydrated: Airplanes are notorious for dry air. Make sure your little one drinks lots of water during the flight to avoid dehydration, which can lead to crankiness.
Do a Test Run: Simulate a flight at home. Have your child sit in a chair for a period while you offer in-flight entertainment like books or small toys. This will give you an idea of what works and what doesn't before you're 30,000 feet in the air.
Keep Routines Consistent: As much as possible, stick to your child's regular meal and sleep schedule. This will provide comfort and familiarity in a new environment. Even small consistencies can significantly affect a child's well-being.
Keep Calm and Carry On: Children are very perceptive and often mirror their parents' emotions. If you are stressed, your child will pick up on it. Stay calm, and your child will feel more secure and relaxed.
12. Sample Long-Flight Schedule for Kids
Here’s a sample itinerary for a 10-hour flight:
Time |
Activity |
Notes |
0:00 – 1:00 |
Boarding & Settling |
Introduce snacks and small toys |
1:00 – 2:00 |
Screen time |
Preloaded movie or game |
2:00 – 2:30 |
Walk/stretch |
Short aisle walk & stretching |
2:30 – 4:00 |
Craft or coloring |
Stickers, coloring books |
4:00 – 5:00 |
Nap |
Use travel pillow & blanket |
5:00 – 6:00 |
Snack & audiobook |
Quiet listening activity |
6:00 – 7:30 |
Educational games |
Maps, language practice |
7:30 – 8:00 |
Meal |
Flight-provided or packed |
8:00 – 9:00 |
Free play |
Seat games or independent toys |
9:00 – 10:00 |
Screen-free calm |
Storytelling or journaling before landing |
13. Conclusion
Turning Long Plane Rides into Fun Family Times
Long plane rides with kids might seem hard, but they don't have to be! With some smart planning, a bunch of different things to do, and making sure everyone's comfy, you can keep your kids happy and busy. The trick is to mix it up – like doing art projects, moving around a bit, playing learning games, and yes, even some screen time.
Before you even get to the airport, think about what your kids enjoy. Do they love to draw? Pack a special notebook and some colorful pencils. Are they into stories? Download some audiobooks or load up on kid-friendly podcasts. Think about bringing a few small, new toys that they haven't seen before. These can be a lifesaver when boredom starts to kick in.
When you're packing, don't forget the comfort items. A familiar blanket or stuffed animal can make a huge difference in how relaxed your child feels. Pack some snacks that you know they like, but also throw in a healthy choice or two. Drinks are essential, too, of course. And think about things that will help with ear pressure during takeoff and landing, like gum or lollipops.
Once you're on the plane, try to stick to some kind of routine. If your child usually naps at a certain time, try to make that happen on the plane as well. This will help them feel more secure and less out of sorts.
Mix up activities. Don't rely on just one thing to keep them entertained. Start with some coloring or drawing. Then, try a learning game or puzzle. Let them watch a movie or play a game on a tablet for a little while. And then, encourage them to get up and move around a bit. Walking to the bathroom or just stretching in the aisle can help break up the monotony.
Make the flight part of the fun. Talk about where you're going and what you're going to do when you get there. Let them look out the window and point out interesting things they see. Turn the flight into an adventure, and they'll be more likely to enjoy it.
Remember, a happy kid makes for a happy flight for everyone. By planning ahead, being prepared with lots of activities, and focusing on comfort and routine, you can make even the longest plane ride feel shorter and a lot more fun. So, take a deep breath, relax, and get ready to make some memories!